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The Team.

All of the key personnel involved are resident in the UK.

Graham Howat (Founding Trustee and Chairman)


Graham is, by training and education, an Aeronautical Engineer with considerable experience at a senior management level in both the UK and overseas. In recent years he has operated internationally as a Management Consultant. He is Maggie Gilbert’s brother, and she has called upon his experience to help her to create the business plan and bring “BETTER LIVING” to fruition.


He has had significant exposure to the Care Sector; his first-hand contact with the trials, successes and frustrations that Maggie has experienced in the context of Thea’s care represents almost 40 years of exposure. He also had a close involvement across 15 years with the care of both parents, his wife’s mother, aunt and uncle. In the case of his mother-in-law, he was a participant in the progression from independent living, the onset of dementia, forgetting to eat and medicate, mild strokes, falling-down and forgetting how to walk, to a wheelchair and a care home. 


Graham has a Master’s Degree in Aircraft Design/Air Transport Engineering from Cranfield University and has undertaken further studies at Henley Management College and INSEAD in Fontainebleau. He has been a member of Council and Court at Cranfield University and was for 13 years the Organiser of a major, annual, Charity Walk in his then Cambridge community. Through his career, he has spent prolonged periods working in Hong Kong; Sweden; Belgium; USA; Ireland; South Africa; Saudi Arabia and Bahrain. 


He is now retired but continues to actively work on airline and charitable projects.

Maggie Gilbert (Project Co-ordinator)


Maggie’s background in Care has been comprehensively described on the Background page of this website. Her achievements in the Voluntary and Charitable Sectors have also been outlined in that section. It remains then, to describe her achievements outside these fields.


Maggie initially qualified with a Diploma in Art & Design in Fine Art (Sculpture) in 1968, since when she has enjoyed successful careers in fields as diverse as freelance art; teaching; personal taxation and hospitality, before focussing her energies in the Voluntary Sector. She has added an HND in Business & Finance; the Chartered Institute of Marketing Diploma, and Part 1 of an MBA, as well as qualifying as a Reflexologist – to which she has added numerous additional hospitality and reflexology qualifications, having always participated in a full programme of Continuing Professional Development.


Without question, she is an individual with the background, the energy and the motivation to head a project such as Better Living.

Howard Gilbert (Founding Trustee and Honorary Secretary)


Howard achieved a Degree in Japanese and Business Management at Durham University, and upon graduation, was employed in Japan for two years, as a Co-ordinator for International Relations. Once back in the UK, he trained, qualified and worked as a City Broker for three years. However, realising that an office job was not for him, he decided to retrain in manual medicine.


Howard is now a fully qualified Osteopath, having graduated from the British School of Osteopathy – the oldest and largest Osteopathic School in Europe. He owns, manages and works out of his complementary medicine clinic in Ashtead, Surrey, and the Royal Courts of Justice in London.


He has first-hand experience of living with, and day-to-day management of disabilities, as his younger sister, Thea, became severely multiply disabled through illness at the age of 9 weeks. He has always been very involved on a voluntary basis in the Charities that Maggie has established to help and support families with children who have disabilities over the years – providing individual, personal care when required, and also organising and directing activities and outings.


With a love of travel and intense interest in other cultures and languages, Howard has lived and worked in Japan; Norway; Spain Qatar and UK, and visited many more countries, including Hong Kong; Russia; France; Slovakia; Austria; Bahrain; UAE and Jordan. He is fluent in Japanese, has conversational French; Norwegian and Spanish, and has recently returned to the UK after spending 5 years in Qatar with his family.

Richard Rappazzini (Founding Trustee and Honorary Treasurer)


Richard is a retired fund manager for institutions and has had a life-time of experience in investment, especially in stocks and shares.

He became a Member of the London Stock Exchange in 1970, and eventually became a Partner of the Stock Exchange Firm for which he worked. He left the Firm in 1998, to become a co-founder and the Chairman of an Institutional Fund-Management Boutique, located in St. James’, London. The clients were heavily regulated financial Institutions in Germany, such as Savings and Loans Banks, and Pension Funds.

Richard had particular responsibilities for financial, legal, compliance and regulatory matters. Now retired, but he has retained his intense interest in financial and economic affairs, both UK domestic and International.

In 2017, he became involved in the development of a day-centre in Montenegro for children with multiple, sensory, and a wide variety of disabilities, including autism and severe mental disability. He visited a similar centre in Horsham – The Springboard Project, which was established and managed by Maggie - and is a long-term friend of Maggie and her family.

Nigel Gilbert (Founding Trustee)


Nigel has a BA Hons Degree from the University of Northumbria. Since graduating, he joined the digital media industry in its infancy, and after working at some of the internet’s original portals, he joined a small team and co-founded the UK’s first digital advertising sales agency. They lately sold that business to France Telecom, and he since launched and ran AppNexus in Europe – the World’s largest independent advertising exchange.


Being brothers, Nigel had the same experiences as Howard, growing up alongside disabilities, and participating in the activity schemes set up and run by Maggie.

Fred Watson (Founding Trustee)


Fred grew up in Switzerland before moving to the UK to train as a physiotherapist. He has a BSc (Hons) in Physiotherapy and an MA in Healthcare Management. After spending the last 5 and a half years in Qatar opening a new women’s and children’s hospital in his capacity as Director of Allied Health, he relocated to Surrey this summer and took up a new position at Ashford and St. Peter’s NHS Foundation Hospitals as Associate Director of Therapies.


Fred is an experienced healthcare manager with demonstrated ability to lead complex therapy and AHP teams in both acute and community settings. He has significant experience establishing new services on green-field sites.


Fred is a native French speaker with a Greek mother and British father, so still has family links in Switzerland, Greece and the UK. He met Howard Gilbert in Qatar and has kept close links since, having repatriated together back to the same area in Surrey.

Audrey Pakenham-Money (Trustee)


Audrey has enjoyed around 13 years’ experience in the diplomatic service – interfacing with the public and problem-solving on a daily basis – followed by 20 years’ experience of the business sector, including 15 years of self-employment.

Throughout her life, Audrey has always been very involved in her local community on a voluntary basis, as well as volunteering with national charities such as Oxfam; Trinity Hospice; Heart Foundation etc.  This work has led to a natural affinity for the elderly, to the point where she became a full-time carer for the elderly in 2017 to the current time.

This close involvement has given her a very real insight into residential care services; Sheltered Living, which has now become Independent Living.

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